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Is it good to always ignore rejection?



You must never, ever ignore rejection.
Rejection is good.
Rejection is good because there are over 7 billion people in the world at the moment and rising. You cannot be friends with all of them. So when someone rejects you, they give you permission to ignore them and move on.
Rejection is good because it is everyone's right to spend time with who they want and if someone rejects you, it is an affirmation of their humanity and of democracy. What's not to like about that?
Rejection is good because if they're idiots then you don't have to waste your precious, irreplaceable time on them. By rejecting you, they make your life better.
Rejection is good because you'll be in good company. Every great person was rejected by someone. Take Tesla. Over 100 patents just isn't enough for many people to reject him out of hand.
"But Phil, you don't understand. The person rejecting me is the coolest guy in school / someone I really like / very important and influential"
So?
There's over 7 billion people in the world. They are not the only one out there who is cool or likeable or important.
Don't waste any more time on them. move on and find others.

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